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    01、
    兩個人在一起沒話說了怎么辦?

    有讀者問過我這個問題,但當你看過劉震云的《一句頂一萬句》之后,你會發現這不是少數人的問題,而是所有情侶都會面臨的事情。

    如果你在我20歲時問我這個問題,我可能會回答,“對方跟你聊不來的話,應該不是你對的人,去找下一個吧”。

    但現在你讓我回答,我會建議你再堅持一會。

    你換了下一個,開始不論何時何地都能捧著手機跟對方聊很久很久,但那股勁過去之后,你會發現不是愛情的問題,是自己。

    《完美陌生人》里有段對話。

    “怎么知道自己是不是愛上她了呢?”

    “如果你每天要和她說上30分鐘的話,那就是愛上她了。”

    “那要是60分鐘呢?”

    “那就是愛死她了。之后你們不再怎么交談,說明你結婚了。”

    愛情總會有熱烈消退的一天,但不是消失,它還在,只是以另一種方式出現了。

    就像爺爺奶奶那個時代的愛情,沒有微信,也沒有手機,一封信要十幾天才能到對方手里,即便如此,他們也是有沒話說的時候。

    可我們還是羨慕,他們找到了頭發花白時能在巷子里牽手散步的伴侶。

    很多人在感情出現問題時傾向于選擇放手。殊不知選擇繼續感情并用心經營才是給彼此最好的禮物。

    02、
    沒有話說,可以說廢話。

    黃磊在《向往的生活》里說過一段話:“年輕的時候,總以為愛情啊生活啊就是么么噠,萌萌噠。

    后來才發現,如果兩個人只有么么噠,那么日子一定過得疙疙瘩瘩。

    真正的過日子,一定要找個能聊天能吃飯的人在一起。”

    但如果我們都忙于各自的事情,沒有新鮮事可說,就不談戀愛了嗎?

    關于這個問題,我的助理有一個不錯的解決方法。

    她平時工作太忙,除了健身房,公司幾乎沒有別的地方可以去。

    她的男朋友在警校,從早上5點半起床到晚上11點半睡覺,每小時都安排得滿滿當當。

    所以,助理會把最近拍的照片發給對方,就算拍出了雙下巴,也毫不猶豫地發給他。

    好看的自拍千篇一律,真實的素顏只發給你。

    而男朋友會在有手機的時候把一天下來做的每件事發給女朋友,讓她了解自己的近況。

    戀愛里痛苦的不是沒話說,而是我感受不到你的在乎,也觸摸不到你的生活。

    熬過了異地戀就是一輩子,熬過了沒話說就是廢話多。

    03、
    沒有話說,可以陪著ta。

    異地沒話說,最怕的就是逃避,“好吧,我還有ppt要做先去忙了”,“感覺沒什么可說的,我睡了”,“你在干嘛?”“沒干嘛”。

    原本只是沒話說,卻讓對方感覺你不想對ta說。

    但如果這時候你們約定一個見面的時間,比如“下個月我們一起去青島看海吧”。

    從你說出口的那一刻,對方和你都會開始期待那一天的到來,以至于整個月都有話聊。

    那時候你就能深切地體會到小狐貍對小王子說的那句:如果你說你在下午四點來,從三點鐘開始,我就開始感覺很快樂,時間越臨近,我就越來越快樂。

    我看過一對異地情侶每天晚上開著視頻默默看著對方忙工作忙學習,整個過程一直都不怎么說話,但對視的時候,眼神里都是幸福。

    04、
    就算此刻我跟你沒話說,日子我還是只想和你過。

    有位全職太太對我說,“我覺得沒話說很正常,但不愿陪你一定不正常”。

    也是,你想象一下,他在沙發上玩手游,你躺在他腿上看書,遇上垃圾隊友的時候他跟你吐槽幾句,你看著他為這點事生氣的樣子笑笑繼續看書。

    快到飯點的時候,你起身去廚房做飯,他穿好鞋子出門接孩子。

    沒什么可說的,但還是囑咐了一句,“快點回來啊”。

    他也沒什么可說的,還是像以往一樣回答了三個字,“知道了”。

    這樣的生活,沒什么話,但你們不會覺得累了,不愛了。

    愛情和婚姻不會一直充滿驚喜,能過得了平淡的,才能談永遠。

    我很喜歡知乎網友「狗蛋的柴爾德」說的:我每天要接觸很多人,也要說很多話,而且不能冷場,尬聊就是沒情商不會來事。

    但你不一樣,你會告訴我,“不想說就不說了吧”。

    情侶的意義,就在于我可以在你面前無話可說,可以一下午一句話都不說,不用討好誰故意找什么話題,不怕尬聊。

    每個人都想找到能時時刻刻聊得來的伴,但我更希望你懂:

    世界上最好的愛就是彼此之間沒有束縛,不期待什么,只是肩并肩一起看日出又日落。
      
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